Necessity is something one cannot live without. This is definite. It varies widely for everyone. Physical items, what call the shots to make one stay alive. Intangible items, what provides life?
Emotional and spiritual health is nonetheless intangible items which are vital.
Academic, physical and financial health are mere secondary factors(at least to me).
You can be poor in terms of money. But you can survive so long your stomach is filled with clean and edible food.
You can be one who never once got recognized in studies. But so long you are not handicapped, there will be jobs opportunities available for you.
Your life will be of one with no regrets, where there are friends and buddies in your life. Your life will be blessed with your Holy one in you as well.
Money can’t buy 2 of the above mentioned, most of us should know this. But how many of us are practicing this? Shrewdness to win over one another is just a common sight in today’s world.
I don’t care much, seriously.
Bad results doesn’t affects me much. Lousy jobs does makes my day a down one, but it doesn’t takes my truest joy away.
But when friends ignore you, stop caring about you, walk away from you, or even dislikes you, life will be like a puppet show. A life which is being controlled by the society.
I hate this. I can feel the difference in friendship. Sensitive is for you to name. But reality is not for you to devour. Often, friends will not be aware that their attitude has changed. They stopped sharing their feelings, thoughts. When all these stops, all behavior and affections will soon enough be superficial.
Strong bondage comes from honesty and trust, and lightening one’s luggage. Without trust, how could you be honest to one another? Without sharing of troubles, how should you lighten one’s burden? All links to one another.
So friends, be the next to share your woos. I believe I have made the first move many times. But doors are often shut upon me.
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